Last updated: June 2025

tl;dr

36 M, based in SF. Looking to build meaningful connections for polyamorous dating and community. Magnetic, warm, curious, playful, witty, and grounded.

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Usually wearing a smile.

About me

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Summary

I’m extroverted, energetic, and deeply curious—drawn to new ideas, intense conversations, and novel experiences. I believe you can decide what you want in life and take steps to create it.

For example, I once quit my job as an engineer, dropped out of a PhD, and bought a one-way ticket to Southeast Asia to build a business. Since then, I’ve settled in San Francisco and split my time between work, hobbies, and growing in weirdly wonderful communities.